I really wanted to do a New Year’s post. Isn’t that what all bloggers do? But no matter how many times I tried to recount my favorite song of 2014 or my goals for 2015, I couldn’t nail down anything of substance – which, in hindsight, is probably the motto of all 20-somethings.
So I went to breakfast yesterday, New Year’s Day, resolution-less and with a champagne hangover only a basket of fries from a greasy-spoon diner called “Cousins” could mediate.
We were sat at a table adjacent to the coffee counter. I noticed an old man sitting by himself sipping coffee and we briefly made eye contact. He had a baseball cap on embroidered with UNITED STATES ARMY VETERAN. It was decorated with pins and buttons. He had no front teeth. He was in sweat pants. He was my spirit animal.
While I glanced at the menu, he kept looking over at me. I couldn’t help but look back,which is when I noticed he had a large framed picture sitting on the counter in front of him. Not an 8 x 10. I’m talking about something the size of a concert poster.
“What’s that guy looking at?” I whispered to my friend.
“If you come over here, I will tell you all about it,” the old man interjected. Apparently I needed to learn to whisper in 2015.
After a brief pause to determine whether or not this was really happening, I reluctantly scooted my chair out and walked toward the counter. But what happened next was sobering.
As I stood over the Vet’s shoulder, I saw the contents of the frame. It was a collage of pictures, maps, and articles from World War II – the morning they dropped the bomb. The first picture was of his friends who captained the plane. It was 2:45am; just around the time the mission commenced. They were eating breakfast. “They had the provisions all ready for us at a quarter-to-three,” the old man said.
“Over here is a layout of the runway,” he continued. “We drew this blueprint ourselves over a map of Long Island, New York. It’s all we had!”
Ivo was his name. I know that because there was a black-and-white picture of him as a young man clipped from a newspaper with a caption on it toward the left side of the frame.
“This is you?” I asked.
“Yes, that’s me. I was a medic.”
He was a medic. He probably saw it all. No, he for-sure saw it all.
We talked for about 10 minutes total. He ended the chat by saying, “There you have it. All you need to know about the Enola Gay.” (Which I found out was named after the pilot’s mother.)
“Thank you so much for sharing. And thank you for your service.” What else could I say? Was I supposed to hug him? It was like the end of an awkward first date. I returned to my seat.
A few moments later, Ivo finished his coffee and stood up. He was about 5 feet tall, hunched over. He then grabbed his frame, which was as big as him, and walked out of Cousins into the cold all alone.
I’ve heard the phrase “We need to do more for our Veterans” before. I never fully understood what that meant. I’m sure I still don’t because I can’t tell if I’m heartbroken, impressed, or a little of both that after all these years, Ivo still carries that frame with him wherever he goes and tells the same stories to whoever will listen about the day our country dropped nuclear bombs in Japan.
Regardless, I left breakfast with a vision for 2015. It’s to listen to others tell their stories. As a writer, it’s always about getting out whatever is swirling around in my brain and having little-to-no time for anything or anyone else. But something happens when I let others take the floor.
I like that I’m still thinking about Ivo today. That I’m motivated to Google him, learn more about this period of history, and to see how I can help Veterans like him. After all, he’s a story-teller like me. And I’ve got to do more for my kind.
Emily Belden is the author of Eightysixed: Life Lessons Learned